Does it really matter? And if it does, who does it matter to?

If my female neighbor is being abused by here husband, is it my business? Is it my business because I hear her being beaten up? What if I don't hear her being beaten up? Is it still my business? And if I never find out, how is that exactly taking away from my life?

If my cousin is abusing her kid, is it my business? If every time I see the kid, he has bruises and acts weird, is it my business to say something? What if the kid acts "normal" but is getting abused? Is it still my business? And if I never find out that he is getting abused, how is that taking away from my life?

If my coworker is a cheating on her husband, is it my business? What if she still is but I never know that? Is it my business? And again, how is that taking away from my life? And, is it really any of my business?

So, when I have people telling me that I cannot marry the man that I have spent 13 years with, is it really their business? And how am I taking anything away from their lives? Wondering. Later.

If I decide to have sex with people of the same sex, is it anyone's business? And if I decide to marry that person, is it their business? And how am I taking anything away from their lives?

Just wondering. Later.  ¶ 9:09 PM