When people say "Oh no, you went there!", exactly where is "there"? Because as far as I can remember I have always been "there". You can't go "there" if the only place you know is "there". And, darling, I AM "there"!
It's no secret to people who know me that I tend to speak my mind. It's one of the main reasons my husband loves me. He said so. Although sometimes, he gets tired of me doing so. But, he knows, if he needs to go "there", then all he has to do is find me.
"There" can be a fun place because it has no walls or boundaries. When you are "there", you can fell free to bring reality back to all involved. And, as we all can attest, reality seems to be missing a lot lately. To paraphrase Goddess Margaret Cho, "I bought a house 'there'." Honestly, I was born "there". My parents tried to get me to move out of "there". But, I was too rooted in "there".
I like it "there". It keeps people on their toes around me. While "there", I know who I can count on to be honest. To be real. To be truthful. We should all go "there". Life is so much easier "there". I know it is. And if you need help, I'll be "there". Later.