Let's say that you are able to loan someone a little money. Also, let's say that when you used to be a struggling New Yorker, you were lucky enough to have someone there to help you through those days when you needed just a little extra cash. And let's say that like that someone in your past, you don't ask for anything in return. Ever.
Is it bad that you cringe when you see them using the money you loaned them to buy "wants" not "needs"? For example, with the $30 I just leant you, shouldn't you be buying some bread, milk, tuna, or eggs instead of the six-pack of beer? Just wondering to myself. Later.